Why Sales Is Misunderstood—and How to Turn It into Your Competitive Advantage

Why Sales Is Misunderstood—and How to Turn It into Your Competitive Advantage

Sales isn’t a dirty word—it’s your business’s lifeline. In a recent episode of the Scale Smart Grow Fast podcast, Harley Green sat down with Beth McClary-Wolford, a Fractional Sales Leader and founder of Superpower Strategies, who debunked common sales myths and offered real-world strategies to transform your sales team into confident, high-performing professionals.

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From Fortune 500 to Small Biz Impact

Beth’s background spans 30+ years in Fortune 100 and 500 companies. But her passion lies in helping small and mid-sized businesses—where she says the sales needle can have the biggest impact on local economies.

Everyone Sells—Even If They Deny It

One of Beth’s core messages? Everyone is in sales, whether they realize it or not. Yet, the profession has suffered from a decline in authenticity and professionalism, largely due to over-reliance on digital, transactional methods. Sales, at its core, is about solving problems and building trust.

“People don’t buy on price—they buy on emotion and value,” Beth emphasized.

Shift the Focus: It’s Not What You Do—It’s What You Do FOR Them

Sales teams often struggle to communicate value. Beth encourages leaders to reframe conversations around the client’s “so what.” What’s in it for them? That’s where the magic happens.

Know Your Metrics, Know Your Impact

Beth breaks down why understanding your lead conversion metrics—and nurturing those leads over time—is crucial. She recommends at least 18 meaningful touchpoints to stay top-of-mind. This isn’t about spamming; it’s about strategic, value-based persistence.

When Should Founders Let Go of Sales?

Beth advises founders to stay involved in sales early on because it’s the fastest way to validate your value prop. But eventually, a structured process, accountability, and consistent coaching are essential if you want to scale.

The First Step You Can Take This Week

Ask your best customers: “Why do you buy from us?” Use those emotional insights to clearly define what makes your business different. It’s the foundation for building a powerful and authentic sales strategy.


Key Takeaways:

  • Sales is about helping, not convincing.
  • Emotional value drives buying decisions—not price.
  • Lead nurturing is a long game—consistency builds familiarity and trust.
  • Founders must eventually delegate sales—but only after installing the right process.
  • Your unique value should be clearly communicated across your entire team.

Want to grow a confident sales team? Connect with Beth McClary-Wolford at superpowerstrategies.com or email her at .

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Transcript

Harley Green:
All right, we’ll get started here. Hey everybody. Welcome back to the Scale Smart Grow Fast podcast. Now everyone sells whether they admit it or not. In this episode, Beth McCleary-Wolford, Fractional Sales Leader and Sales Team Strategist, breaks down why sales has become a misunderstood word and how to reframe it as a competitive advantage. With 30 plus years of experience building high-performing teams and revamping sales processes, Beth’s going to share how to transform hesitant teams into confident sellers through assessment, coaching, and real-world connection. Beth, welcome to the podcast. How are you doing today?

Beth McClary-Wolford:
It’s a real pleasure to be here. And it’s a beautiful sunny and hot day.

Harley Green:
Nice, very nice. Well, Beth, maybe you can give a little background about your story. What brought you to doing what you are doing today, helping people with sales?

Beth McClary-Wolford:
So I’ve spent most of my career working for Fortune 100, Fortune 500 companies. And it’s great, and I got great experience and a lot of wonderful training. But the problem is that most businesses in the United States and in Chattanooga are small to medium-sized businesses, and they are the ones that need the most help. And that is where I realized I could make the most impact. And so three and a half years ago, I started Superpower Strategies to bring my experience and all the wonderful things that I’ve learned in my 30 plus years to that marketplace. Moving that sales needle for those small to medium-sized businesses is a significant impact and it impacts the economy and it gives us hope for the future.

Harley Green:
Yeah, that’s powerful. You’re helping your neighbors and the community really improve their businesses by bringing their service to people that need it. It’s a win-win-win situation. I love that. Now you often say that everyone sells, but many don’t want to admit it. Why do you think that sales still has such a negative stigma and how do you help people reframe that?

Beth McClary-Wolford:
Well, one reason why sales has such a bad reputation is that the level of sales professionalism has been on the decline. We’ve become a very transactional society, or as salespeople, we want it to be transactional. That’s been stimulated by digital marketing, and it has its place and I love it. I would not give away all of my experiences and the campaigns that we have. But in that transactional marketplace, a salesperson’s impact has diminished. We’ve just gotten lazy and we’ve forgotten that sales is about providing a solution to a problem and addressing a client challenge. And if we’re just taking orders, we’re not helping them understand how what you’re doing can really make an impact on what they’re trying to accomplish. I wish that we could change the way that people define sales, because the definition is helping people do what they need and what they want and addressing challenges and providing solutions. It’s not about manipulation or coercion or tricking. It’s about listening and understanding and then creating solutions that identify and help. One of the things that I’ve realized in the marketplace is that the sales bar of expectations of salespeople is really, really low. If I can help raise that bar just a little bit for Chattanooga, it will be significant. That’s my goal. I want people, when they meet someone and they’re a salesperson, to enjoy the experience and realize that they’re better off today than they were before interacting with that company or that salesperson. I want them to think, they must’ve worked with Beth because the bar is here.

Harley Green:
Yeah, so what are some tips that you might share for people that could start implementing to improve that experience as a salesperson that their clients or potential clients have when they do meet them?

Beth McClary-Wolford:
We need to be very conscious of the “so what.” I always ask people when they go and talk with a potential client, what’s in it for them? It’s not about what you do, it’s what you do does for the person that you’re talking to. So in your case with WorkerGenix, you provide virtual assistance. You help people focus themselves so they can go out in the world and do what they do best, which is meet and greet and talk with people. You take away the administrative stuff that has to be done, but it doesn’t have to be done by me. What you do for me is save me time and allow me to invest my energy where it’s the most valuable, right? Keeping it very customer-centric is key because people buy on emotion. They don’t buy on price. And even if someone’s price is higher, there was a reason why it was higher. What are you doing? What does that extra money do for the client? You’re just not communicating it. Or you really don’t understand what their motivation is for making the decision. Don’t spray and pray. Ask a lot of questions. Ask people, what is it you want to accomplish this year? We’re halfway through. What steps are you taking today so that I can see if I can help you? Being very customer-centric and trying to walk in their shoes is probably one of the most important things a person can do. When you start talking about emotions, people get uncomfortable. But you do have to care. And no matter how technical or intangible your product or service is, it does something for that client. It can change everything about what they’re doing.

Knowing your numbers and understanding how many calls it takes to get an appointment can be depressing, but it’s important. When things get better, we can celebrate and know that our efforts and preparation helped us along. A lot of people don’t understand the value of a lead. Even if you don’t close the deal today, what are you doing to stay in front of that person? You need to continuously communicate your value so that when things change, they come directly to you.

Harley Green:
That’s a really good point about that follow-up. Do you have any guidelines or rules of thumb to help sales teams and leaders calculate that investment they should make in follow-up?

Beth McClary-Wolford:
It comes down to continuous touching. To get somebody’s attention, you’ve got to touch them at least 18 times. I’ve read studies that suggest it can go up as high as 50 to 100 touches. We’re overstimulated—emails, texts, everything. So in the beginning of a client relationship, I always say it takes 18 touches. People think that means picking up the phone 18 times, but that’s not what I’m saying. We’ve got to figure out the customer journey—how to help them find you and become warmer to you. That could be as simple as a business card. People may not remember why they know your company, but it’s because they’ve seen your logo around. Business cards, social media—even if you’re not getting likes or comments, you’re still visible. Build a strong digital presence and provide value, tips, and insights. Familiarity builds trust.

Being consistent and persistent on social media helps. Provide education and value. Most people don’t know what you do. You have to share it. One of my favorite things is when I call someone and say, “This is Beth McClary-Wolford with Superpower Strategies,” and there’s a long pause—they’re trying to figure out if they know me. That means I’ve done my job. It’s not about who you know, it’s who knows you. The more people you meet, the better off you are. Everyone has a compelling story. Sometimes they forget why they started their business. And sometimes that’s all it takes—me sitting down and asking, why did you do this?

Harley Green:
I want to switch gears a little bit. As you’re assessing a company’s sales structure or processes, what are some of the first signs that something’s broken or just plain missing?

Beth McClary-Wolford:
In the assessment process, I meet with anyone who interfaces with clients. Some companies don’t even have salespeople—just people who interact with clients. I ask the same eight questions of everyone. The number one issue is that people do not understand the value they bring to the marketplace, and they can’t communicate it. I ask, what makes you different? Who’s your competitor and what makes you different? Everyone struggles. I thought it was isolated to Chattanooga, but it’s a common issue across the board. Founders may know what makes them different, but they don’t communicate it. Everyone on the team should understand your core values and what makes you unique. If no one else is talking about it, you can claim it.

There’s also the problem that after COVID, a lot of salespeople quit working. They were able to hide. In assessments, you can tell who’s working and who’s not. We all have those months or even years when we’re burnt out. The problem is not admitting it and hoping it will go away. But there are no shortcuts in sales. It’s hard work. If a salesperson is creative enough to get you on the phone and asks for 15 minutes, give it to them. That 15 minutes could bring value. People don’t want to be sold, but they love to buy. My process isn’t about selling—it’s about learning how to help.

Harley Green:
Is there a point at which it makes sense for the founder or leadership team to step back from frontline sales? What does that look like?

Beth McClary-Wolford:
Yes, absolutely. The number one skill a founder needs is sales. There’s a great Forbes article on this. People may have great products, but if they don’t know how to sell them, nothing happens. Often, the sales function is the first thing that gets pushed aside. Salespeople are handed a stack of cards and told to go sell, but there’s no infrastructure—no process, no technology, no coaching, no accountability. Teams are no different than children. They need expectations clearly communicated. Use the process. Be successful. Make money. Great sales teams have a process they follow without fail. They’re always prospecting. It’s not marketing’s job to provide leads—it’s the salesperson’s job to find prospects and share the story. I’m proud to be a sales professional. I still have customer relationships from years ago because I made a difference. It’s not about money. That’s just a reward. What really motivates a salesperson is making a connection and helping someone achieve something.

Harley Green:
You’ve helped people implement and revamp their sales processes. What’s one process most companies either overlook or underestimate?

Beth McClary-Wolford:
Lead nurturing. After your 18 touches, and once you get a meeting, you go out and do discovery. Then you come back to build a proposal. But before that, send a follow-up that says, “Here’s what I learned from our meeting.” That step alone raises the bar. It shows you listened. Use that information in your proposal. Say, “We talked, you shared X, Y, and Z. Is that still true?” Sometimes they add more. Always bring it back to their goals. Don’t assume they remember why you’re there. Remind them. You’re one of many vendors they’ve talked to. Remind them of your value. Sometimes people say, “That’s going to take a lot of creativity.” But if you have the right ideal customer profile, you can figure out how your solution fits. There’s always a return on that investment.

Harley Green:
If someone listening wants to strengthen their sales team, what’s one simple but powerful move they can make this week?

Beth McClary-Wolford:
Define your value. Who are you? What do you do? Why do people come to you? What makes you different? If you don’t know, call your best customers and ask them. Some people say, “I’m not the premier provider.” But you never will be unless you start saying it and acting like it. Ask yourself: why do people come to us? Fill in the blanks: because they’re overwhelmed with ____, frustrated with ____, looking for a partner who ____. And no, saving money isn’t one of those reasons.

Harley Green:
Beth, if people want to continue the conversation with you, what’s the best way to connect?

Beth McClary-Wolford:
They can go to my website and schedule a consultation at superpowerstrategies.com. Or email me at . Or call me at 423-551-3574.

Harley Green:
Awesome. We’ll include all that in the show notes. If you got value from this episode, hit like and subscribe so you don’t miss future strategies to help you scale smarter. Know someone who could benefit? Share the episode—it might be exactly what they need. Thanks again for tuning in. See you next time.

Beth McClary-Wolford:
Thank you!

Why Traditional Sales Is Dead—and What You Should Do Instead

Why Traditional Sales Is Dead—and What You Should Do Instead


The sales landscape has shifted, and if you’re still using outdated tactics, you’re not just behind—you’re losing. In our latest Scale Smart Grow Fast podcast episode, Harley Green sits down with sales strategist and bestselling author Joe Candido to unpack what today’s B2B buyers really want—and how sales leaders can meet them there.

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🎯 Traditional Tactics No Longer Work

Buyers today are informed, empowered, and immune to product pitches. Joe makes it clear: “No one wants to hear about your company—they want value.” If your sales team is leading with features instead of outcomes, you’re doing it wrong.

💡 Enter Leadership Selling

Joe introduces his game-changing framework: Leadership Selling. This approach prioritizes:

  • Selling to decision-makers (not just gatekeepers)
  • Understanding client business goals
  • Delivering value before asking for anything
  • Focusing on business outcomes over product specs

🧠 Mindset Shifts That Drive Growth

Leadership selling isn’t just a strategy—it’s a mindset. Joe urges sales leaders to:

  • Assess team competencies, not just skills
  • Coach based on forward-looking activities (not just closed deals)
  • Stop chasing RFPs unless you helped write them
  • Be involved—review deals, negotiate, coach in the field

🛠 Tools & Time Management

Joe highlights that most salespeople spend less than 20% of their time actually selling. His fix? Leverage tech—like CRMs and AI—for research, scheduling, and admin tasks. But streamline it. “If the system frustrates your reps, they’ll game it,” he warns.

✅ Pro Tip to Boost Revenue Now

Joe’s go-to strategy: Gather your team, review all current opportunities, and prioritize the top-tier deals you can realistically close this month. Focus energy there and watch results accelerate.


Bottom Line: If you want to lead a modern, high-performing sales team, stop selling like it’s the 90s. Start leading with value, insight, and strategic intent.


📘 Learn more about Joe’s work: https://leadership-selling.com

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Transcript

Harley Green: Hey everybody, welcome back to the Scale Smart Grow Fast podcast. I’m host Harley Green. And as you may know in business sales, sales is not just a department. It’s the engine of scale in a business. In this episode, Joe Candido, sales strategist and author of Leadership Selling, reveals why traditional sales tactics are failing and what today’s buyers actually expect. Joe shares how sales leaders can transform their teams into trusted business advisors that drive revenue, loyalty and long-term growth by focusing on outcomes, not pitches. Joe, welcome to the podcast. How are you today?

Joe Candido: I’m doing great Harley, nice to see you and thanks for having me here.

Harley Green: It’s our pleasure. Now, Joe, can you maybe elaborate a little bit, give the audience more background about what’s brought you to helping other people scale their sales teams.

Joe Candido: My career has really been a journey in sales. I started in the tech sector. And I quickly figured out that if I didn’t understand my customer’s world, I was never going to succeed at selling anything to them. They didn’t care about the technology. They cared about something that was happening in their business that the technology might be able to help them with. So it caused me to shift how I approached sales. Initially, I was all about the product. I had to learn the product features, I had to do a great demo, but it was completely my agenda, product centric. Product is important. It’s foundational knowledge. You have to have it, but that’s not the end state. That’s the beginning of the journey with the customer. You have to be knowledgeable about their world and then show them how the product or service you represent can be of value to them in their world. So it’s really a shift from a me-centric approach to a client-centric approach.

Harley Green: You’ve said that traditional selling is dead. What do you believe has changed most in how sales needs to be done today?

Joe Candido: The buyers are way more savvy than they used to be. Today we have so much information as buyers. We’ve got the internet and we have access to competitors. We have a global landscape. We can source goods and services from a really large geography. This is true whether you’re selling nationally or locally, whether you’re a small company, mid-size company, or a multinational. The buyers are sophisticated and they know a lot. They’re trying to find someone who can bring value beyond what they can get on their own. So the question we all need to ask is, why should someone buy from me? What am I doing beyond the core service and product, beyond my competitors, that causes the buyer to say, I want to work with you? That’s why traditional selling is dead. Dialing for dollars, working through a list, and pitching people doesn’t work. They don’t care about your company or product until you’ve earned the right. If a buyer really wants to know about your company, they’ll ask. Until then, offer value first.

Harley Green: What are some tips or strategies to help identify what that value might be with your ideal client and really distinguish yourself from the competition?

Joe Candido: First, to be clear, I’m talking about business-to-business selling. We’re assuming salespeople are engaging by phone, face-to-face, or Zoom. This isn’t Amazon. You need to do your homework. Know who you’re calling and why. Know the company, the person, their title, and what challenges they might be facing. Have something of value to share that is not a pitch. It could be a white paper, a trend, something about their industry—something helpful. This demonstrates you know their world. Sometimes you have to do this two or three times before they’ll trust you enough to talk. You might email something, leave a voicemail, or follow up with more insights. Build trust.

Harley Green: One thing you talk about a lot is leadership selling. How is leadership selling different from what most sales teams are currently doing?

Joe Candido: Leadership selling means be a leader and sell to leaders. We usually sell to the middle or lower part of the organization because we think it’s easier. But they often don’t have buying authority. Or they buy based on strict criteria, usually focused on price. Leaders are paid to change the business. Managers run it. When you sell to a leader, they know the goals, they know where they’re trying to take the company. They want to hear about trends, competitors, and what can help them hit their objectives. And they have the authority and budget to act. You can reach them if you’re prepared with insights. I’ve seen it done time and again.

Harley Green: Tell us some tips or strategies to make sure you’re able to speak with those leaders and decision makers.

Joe Candido: The gatekeeper can be your best ally. Their job is to open the gate, not just close it. So don’t go around them—talk to them. They answer the phone. Be transparent: “I need to speak to your boss and here’s why.” Explain the value you bring. Say you work with executives like theirs and want to share some trends. When they say they’ll check with their boss, explain that the boss will have questions they can’t answer—and will want to get a feel for you personally. Offer a quick, 2–3 minute chat. That approach works 70% of the time.

Harley Green: Let’s shift to mindset. What are some mindset shifts that sales leaders and salespeople need to make?

Joe Candido: One shift is focusing on competencies, not just knowledge. Many salespeople know what to do but don’t do it—especially when it comes to prospecting. We need to assess teams and understand the gaps. Managers need to stop just telling people what to do and start coaching how to do it. Also, shift from looking backward (at reports) to looking forward. Ask what they’re doing today to be successful tomorrow. Focus more on activity than just results. Results matter, but activity drives them. Set clear expectations—like five appointments this week—and help them get there. Leaders need to get involved: join sales calls, review proposals, help negotiate. Be present.

Harley Green: That’s something we see often too—leaders delegate too much. What are other common mistakes you see from leadership?

Joe Candido: One big one is not having a clear sales strategy. Everyone’s doing something, but not all rowing in the same direction. Leaders must define how the team will win. What differentiates us? Make it client-centric and focused on business outcomes. Help clients reach their goals—that’s where value is, and it leads to loyalty. You’ll justify your pricing when you can demonstrate ROI. Don’t chase RFPs unless you helped write them. They’re usually just to validate someone else’s price, and even if you win, you’ll have no relationship or margin. Stick to your plan. Target clients who are a good fit.

Harley Green: When is the right time to delegate to executive assistants so the sales team can focus on high-value activities?

Joe Candido: Time management is crucial. Most salespeople spend less than 20% of their time selling. Improve that by training and using systems. Handle emails during off-peak hours. Use AI and CRMs wisely—don’t bog people down with admin. Use AI for rough drafts, scheduling, research, and reminders—but validate its output. Tools can save time, but they shouldn’t become the job. Use them to support sales, not slow it down.

Harley Green: What kind of systems help keep teams consistent and high-performing despite all these tools?

Joe Candido: I use a framework called QQVB: Quantity, Quality, Velocity, and Balance. Your CRM and funnel should be simple and auto-generated from daily sales activities. Don’t ask reps to enter the same data in multiple places. And don’t punish them when forecasts miss—otherwise, they’ll game the system. If deals are stuck, coach, don’t blame. Understand the problem and help fix it. QQVB lets you identify bottlenecks and coach more effectively.

Harley Green: Joe, what’s one actionable step sales teams should take right now?

Joe Candido: Gather your team, look at every opportunity, and rank them. Focus your energy on the top 5, 10, or 20 that are most likely to close this month. Collaborate as a team to prioritize and close. This drives immediate results and builds great habits.

Harley Green: Joe, how can people connect with you?

Joe Candido: Go to leadership-selling.com. You’ll find my book and contact info. No strings—happy to chat.

Harley Green: Thank you so much, Joe. And thanks to everyone tuning in. If you got value from this episode, like, subscribe, and share. We’ll see you next time.